Clear Signs that You Need to Leave Your Boyfriend
Love is a very special emotion, it can be extremely hurtful though, if it is not reciprocated by the person you love, in the same manner and same amount! Often we get into relationships with people we love a lot, but the person we love doesn’t necessarily love us the way we wished they did. Sometimes, it seems forced and you feel like you are in a one sided relationship. This is a clear sign that you need to move on. Mostly girls face such situations where they don’t get enough attention and love from their partners post the couple of months of their relationship. They often discuss this with their girlfriends and try to find out ways to deal with it. Most of the times the solution they get is to leave the guy, who isn’t treating her well.
But how do you know whether you must leave him or still work on the relationship in the hope that he might change?
- He doesn’t pay much attention to you
A boyfriend is not a good companion if he doesn’t pay attention to his girlfriend. He doesn’t realize what you like, what you don’t like, what are your preferences, your availability, your office timings and such things, then you really need to leave the guy. You must leave him especially, if he is not interested in knowing much about you and is happy with little information. If he doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t deserve a place in your life. [ Read here: 7 Best Ways To Deepen His Love For You
- He gets angry a LOT
If your boyfriend has anger management issues that border on verbal abuse and physical violence, get rid of him PRONTO! No one has the right to treat you in a bad way. Abuses should not be taken lightly. If you go ahead and marry this guy, your children will have a miserable time seeing their parents fight and shout their lungs out. [ Read: 10 Big Problems In A Relationship And How To Fix Them ]
- He is a control freak
If your boyfriend is extremely particular about everything and doesn’t like it one bit if things get a little out of hand, he is a control freak. He tries to control you and your life. He chooses which places you must go, what you should eat, what dresses you must wear, which people you must meet, whom you shouldn’t talk to and how you should deal with life. Run for your life, because this person will change you completely. [ Read: 10 Biggest Dating Turn Offs for Guys That Girls Don’t Know About! ]
- He is borderline – crazy
Some guys get so deep in love with their partner, which becomes an obsession for them. He gets violent, extremely abusive or extremely emotional about small things. He doesn’t like when you interact with anybody except him. He gets crazy jealous of other guys. It might sound cute at first, but it will become a pain in your neck if you keep entertaining such behavior. [ Read: 25 Things Guys Do That Girls Actually Love and Hate ]
- He is wasting his life
Your boyfriend is not interested in earning money. He is not passionate about anything. He lives each day as it comes. He has no future plans for himself or for the both of you. He enjoys watching television, being a couch potato and sleeping. Don’t waste your time on this guy, because it won’t do you any good. And life not getting better only means it is getting worse. [ Read: 7 Ways To Start Healing Your Relationship After an Affair ]
- He borrows too much money
If your boyfriend doesn’t earn, and he keeps borrowing lot of money from his friends, relatives and even you, you must leave him. This guy sure as hell cannot deal with his financial problems and will get into you big trouble as well. He has a lack of self respect and will make you feel worse about being with him. [ Read: 12 Romantic Things To Do With Your Girlfriend When You Don’t Have Money ]
- He is an addict
The guys, who are addicted to drugs or drinking, cannot be a good choice. Addiction to any kind of harmful intoxicant can be dangerous. This means that your boyfriend doesn’t want to wake up to his real life and face his problems. He wants to stay intoxicated and unaware of what the world is coming to. He for sure, cannot take another person’s responsibility. [ Read: Clear Signs of 10 Creepy Guys To Completely Avoid ]
When did you realize that your ex boyfriend needs to be dumped? Share your experiences with us in the comments section.